{"id":122,"date":"2005-06-15T23:46:22","date_gmt":"2005-06-16T07:46:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.horace.org\/blog\/?p=122"},"modified":"2009-04-21T19:07:10","modified_gmt":"2009-04-22T03:07:10","slug":"social-sense","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.horace.org\/blog\/2005\/06\/15\/social-sense\/","title":{"rendered":"social sense"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe I am a person really lack of social sense, according to Pat&#8217;s complains.  She had come up with examples that I&#8217;m can&#8217;t deny, thus I&#8217;m convinced that I have problems in this area.  Am I social challenged? In some sense, yes.  To come up with cure, first I have to understand the context of social sense.  According to Pat, the first rule of thumb is consider others feeling.  In some occasions, I lack the awareness of others&#8217; response to my action.  That part is easier to fix, just have to run a several thread in my brain to always simulate others reaction.  In some other case, I just don&#8217;t expect they will have that kind of response, at least I won&#8217;t.  They are weird to me as I&#8217;m weird to them.   The principle of not being selfish can no longer apply.  I guess I have to start watching more TVB series, especially modern ones, to take samples on how a normal stereotyped person will react in different circumstances.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe I am a person really lack of social sense, according to Pat&#8217;s complains. She had come up with examples that I&#8217;m can&#8217;t deny, thus I&#8217;m convinced that I have problems in this area. Am I social challenged? In some sense, yes. 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