My schedule for this weekend is packed solid.\u00a0 My flight touched down in Vancouver airport on late Friday evening.\u00a0 After resting a bit overnight, I have to wake up early to attend the full day event of my cousin’s wedding.\u00a0 I have attended many weddings.\u00a0 It is the first time I can just ring the bell and walk straight into the bride’s house in the morning.\u00a0 Since this time I am not the “brothers” of the groom, rather I am the “sisters” of the bride, my cousin.\u00a0 It is interesting to see the “get the bride” game from a different perspective.\u00a0 Usually, I am among the brothers group, who have to go through all the hoops to make the sisters open the door for the groom.\u00a0 Although I belongs to the “sisters” group, I didn’t give the “brothers” of the groom a hard time.\u00a0 I just watch quietly at the back all the time.\u00a0 I believes in the the teaching of the Golden rule, “do not unto others what you don’t want others unto you.”\u00a0 Actually, the “sisters” is way to easy going this time, no harsh games except the “brothers” has to wear Chinese style ladies’ underwear.\u00a0 Probably because the maid of honor, my other little cousin, is too gentle.\u00a0 The “sisters” didn’t even bargain enough for the open door red pocket. The “brothers” offered them a chance to bargain harder.\u00a0 Seeing things from the other sides give me insights for my own wedding.\u00a0 I have to screen the “sisters” of Pat and make sure all of them are gentle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"