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Sometimes I wonder, how come so many of Pat&#8217;s friends are still single.  Maybe I should start hooking up the single guys at work with them.  The only problem is I can&#8217;t think of a way to introduce them to each other without embrassement of match making them intentionally.  Probably that is the reason why they are single in the first place, I can&#8217;t think of any activities they like or will enjoy, and at the same time also allow them to make new friends of the other sex outside their own social circle.  In short, both of them are quite boring.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tonight I went with Pat to a christmas gathering of her church friends, and I am the only guy there. If I knew that ahead of time, I will choose not to go. 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