The Power of Now – Eckhart Tolle

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暑期時回多倫多老家參加朋友婚禮﹐信佛的老媽子了本書給我﹐說這本書很出名很有意思﹐一定要看帶回來閱讀。「當下的力量」是那類新紀元自助書藉﹐書背的介簡說此書能讓讀者找到生命的價值﹐如何過快樂和有意義的人生云云。在網上翻查資料﹐這本書的確很暢銷﹐全球賣出超過二百萬本﹐不過全靠Oprah的功勞。這本書初版只不過印了三千本﹐銷量不過普普通通﹐不過經Oprah在她的讀書會介紹﹐旋即洛陽紙貴登上紐約時報暢銷書榜。作者亦從一個藉藉無名的窮光蛋﹐搖身一變成為指導別人走出迷津的人生大師﹐開班授徒教生活方式賺過盆滿砵滿。

這本書的內容對於我們東方人來說是老生常談﹐不過是把佛經的道理重新包裝﹐用英文寫出來舊酒新瓶賣給鬼佬﹐說穿了整本書不過是重覆「活在當下」﹐「無我」和「放下執著」等簡單道理。這書本以問答形式寫作﹐讀者感覺像與大師對談﹐讓大師一步步慢慢引領讀者開竅。老實說這書寫得有點長氣﹐同一個道理不停重覆又重覆﹐彷彿說多幾次可以便可以把讀者洗腦。這本書既然歸類為新紀元讀物﹐作者當然不會說他抄佛經的道理﹐賣廣告說是他經過反覆思考後﹐有一天忽然領悟出來的人生真理。為免得失龐大的基督教徒市場﹐作者去除佛經道理的宗教性﹐偶然還胡亂引用些聖經金句﹐好說他教的道理與耶穌相輔雙成。

書本的內容倒沒有什麼好評批﹐畢竟這些道理我們由細聽到大﹐只不過很多人卻常常忘記了﹐能夠把道理融入生活中的人就更加少。在不開心或感到煩惱時﹐讀讀這本書可以幫助我們重新認清楚人生的方向。兼讀佛經老土或難明的朋友﹐可以選擇這本雞精版鬼佬時麾佛經﹐不過我認為看中文古文的佛經才原汁原味。

這本書的作者最倒霉時要露宿街頭﹐寫這本書改變了他的一生﹐當上人生大師發了達﹐還常常成為名流富豪的座上客。人生大師可是一個不錯的職業﹐香港有教人混吉避凶的風水佬算命佬﹐外國則有教人活得開心活得有意義的人生大師﹐同樣也有很多有錢佬送主動上門聽他們吹水。這本書的作者只不過是把些人生大道理﹐加入適量的形上哲學和宗教索引﹐抄埋一碟色香味俱全端上來宴客。我也略懂哲學亦對宗教素來有興趣﹐我應識也寫本書當個人生大師﹐收入應識好過當個工程師吧。書名也想好了叫作「人生的微積分」(The Calculus of Life)﹐書本的確實內容還本有頭緒﹐不過不外乎那些人人都懂的大道理﹐問題是如何下筆包裝才能夠成為暢銷書呢﹖

The paradox of choice

Different people have different ways of making a decision. When Pat make a decision, she can make up her mind once she come across something she like. When I make a decision, I am have to study every available information before I make up my mind. I found I have may have the problem of compulsive complete information syndrome. I have to list down all the choices, then pick the one that best fit my criteria. I feel obligate to read all the information or I don’t not feel comfortable about my decision and have anxiety second guessing I am not making the right choice.

When the choices available to me is limited due to information availability or the lack of variety in selection, my decision process works pretty well. When I am buying electronics, computer, sports equipments, guns or any guys stuff, I can apply some filter algorithms to narrow in my choices based on the feature I want or my budget constraint. I found my decision process is not scalable to stuff with no easy objective criteria. When I am buying faucets and cabinet handles for my kitchen and bathroom, Direct Buy have the complete catalog of over a dozen faucets manufacturers and over a thousand different kinds of cabinet handles. It took me almost two nights to go over every one of them to figure out which is the right one. I don’t have this problem if I buy faucets and handles form Home Depot or Candian Tires, since they have a aisle of faucet or handle selection at most and I can finish the aisle in 15 minutes.

I have to go through this painful selection process at least three more times. I still have to find the right lights fixtures, the right dining table and the right bed frames for our new place. There are at least 200 more furniture and light catalogs from Direct Buy. I have to read every page and then research more information about those products online. Now, I can understanding why sometimes more is less, the paradox of choice.

Your plastic pal

Forget about the problem of plastic bags, biodegradable PLA bags is around the corner. Science and technology is always the answer to environmental problems.

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The parable of the sower

Monsanto is one of the few stocks actually made me some money. Well, my Monsanto stocks just became my new kitchen. I am always pro genetic modified food. I am still waiting the day that they can grow meat on tree.

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Design your kitchen

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After going back and forth with our kitchen designer for almost a month, at last we finalized our kitchen design and placed the order. Direct Buy has a really good deal buying kitchen cabinets. I went to the Kitchen Craft showroom trying to get an estimate for comparison, the sales refuse to give me a quote after hearing my budget, which is my quote at Direct Buy plus the $5000 membership fee. He said I am unrealistic trying to get the high end line with my pity budget. He said my kitchen is pretty big, my budget can only only get me the high end cabinet box without no doors.

Design the kitchen is a long and stressful process, but I learned a lot from it. I know some basic principle of kitchen design. Knows how to partition the kitchen into three zones, the washing zone, preparing zone and cooking zone. I studied the Kitchen Craft catalog cover to cover. Once I figured out how my kitchen should look, picking the right cabinet from the catalog is pretty straight forward. Reading the catalog opens my eyes, I am not even aware of all those different cabinet options just from going to the showrooms. There are more hinge actions then I can ever imagine. Picking the color and door style is Pat’s department, I only give comments on material and costs.

The cabinet is fixed, now I have to worry about counter top and handles. There are over a hundred different kinds of stone surface and over a thousand different kinds of door handles. After that I have to pick the right faucet and sink. I will have to do a lot more research and go to many more showrooms before I can make up my mind. When the kitchen is finished, my next mission is to design the master bedroom closet and it will be another endless quest of style and options. In my opinion, customize all the elements in my house to meet our taste and preference is a lot more work than setting up Linux config files using only text editor.

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